For some reason many married Christians think that GOD does not want them to get down and dirty when it comes to having sex. Listen, GOD wants you to enjoy sex. He created it for two purposes. Pleasure and reproduction. PERIOD! It was created for pleasure as well as reproduction. You should be doing whatever it takes to please each other.
The biggest question many Christians have is “what is allowable?” Well I think that is all up to you. Use a bit of common sense. No, GOD would not approve of a threesome so I wouldn’t go there. After all marriage is for two people so you don’t bring an extra party into your bedroom. But as far as toys and different positions you are free to explore those things.
Being a Christian does not mean you have to have boring sex. Spice it up. Remember, GOD wants you to enjoy sex. He wants you to have a healthy and happy sex life.
What you do in your bedroom is really up to you and your partner. Get together and discuss a few things you would like to try. One of the greatest things you can to do make your lovemaking more interesting and exciting is to try new positions. Stop it already with the boring old missionary position.
Be free. Open up. Allow yourself to explore your partner fully. Christian sex should be the best sex. Do you think that GOD would want you to be unfulfilled sexually? Of course he doesn’t.
Another big question that comes up a lot is “is oral sex ok?” I personally feel oral sex is ok. I see it as another way to please your partner. But just like everything else you have to do what you feel is best for your relationship. If you and your partner don’t feel it’s appropriate then don’t do it. It’s that simple.
The bottom line is this. You should be having enjoyable sex. If you want to try something and you are not sure if it is ok in the eyes of GOD then simply ask him. He will answer you. That I can promise.
A great guide I recommend you read is “500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets” By Michael Webb. This book comes highly recommended by many Christian Counselors. It is not vulgar or offensive in any way. You can also find more articles and information about improving your sex life by visiting have better sex now.
