Christian sex is a topic that is discussed all too often. Many Christians are having unfulfilling sex because they are afraid that they might do something that GOD doesn’t approve of. Let me just say this. GOD wants you to enjoy sex. It is suppose to be a pleasurable act. You should be experiencing mind blowing orgasms as a Christian couple. Yes, I did just say that.
Christians tip toe around the subject way too much. Sex is a part of marriage. As a Christian you should have a very happy and healthy sex life. Yes, there are some things you should not do. For instance, you should not bring a third party into your bedroom. I’m sure you knew that right?
As far as new positions, toys and role playing…Well you are free to explore. What you do is really up to you and your spouse. The two of you must get together and discuss what you feel is ok to try and what you feel isn’t ok to try. It’s all about good communication.
Purchase a book or guide that shows you different positions you can try. Read it together so you can show each other the different things you would be interested in trying. There are many great Christian resources out there that will help you out with this. Remember that everything written is based on someone’s opinion. That is why the two of you must communicate with each other to let one another know what you feel is and isn’t acceptable.
You should also do a little research and learn about different sex toys for Christians. Once again there are many books and resources available that will help you with this. Remember to keep an open mind. Role playing, toys, trying new positions, these are all things that can enhance your sexual pleasure.
When it boils down to it, if you are not sure what you should or shouldn’t be doing just ask GOD. Go to the father in prayer. He will answer.
A great guide I recommend you read is “500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets” By Michael Webb. This book comes highly recommended by many Christian Counselors. It is not vulgar or offensive. You can also find more articles and information about improving your sex life by visiting have better sex now.
I know that there are people who think that limiting sex to marriage is far too restrictive, but the God who created us knew all about the negative outcomes like teen pregnancy, diseases, and the heartbreak that comes from promiscuity and affairs - both on the individuals and on society.