A very touchy subject in the Christian community is whether or not sex toys are allowed within the Christian marriage. Ultimately this decision is up to the couple involved. The husband and wife should sit down and discuss what they feel is appropriate as far as the use of sex toys go. Here are a few things to keep in mind:
- Safety is oh so important. Before you bring any sex toy into the bedroom consider the harm it could possible cause. Some sex toys are very over the top and can cause physical harm to someone. That’s the kind of toy you don’t want to use. If something can cause harm to either party then rule it out immediately.
- When searching for sex toys stay away from things such as blow up dolls that actually simulate another person. When you do that it’s almost like bringing another person into the bedroom and that is a no no.
- Use a bit of common sense. I think we all know when we have gone too far. Use your better judgment when it comes to using sex toys.
- Don’t be embarrassed. Many Christian couples have a desire to experiment with toys in the bedroom and many of them do. It all about exploring all possibilities and making your sex life the best it can be. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Just open your mind and have fun.
Listen, sex toys are a great way to make things more exciting in the bedroom. Things can get boring rather fast so by adding a sex toy in the mix you can eliminate a lot of boredom. Like I said before use your better judgment. If you are still unsure if something is appropriate then pray and ask GOD about it. He will give you an answer.
